Personally (and to use a hacked-up idiom), I think the beauty of a pet name is in the eye – or voice box – of the beholder. Sexy pants 10. well today i was watching some movie where a bunch of guys where talking about women in a disrespectful way. 4. Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window), Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window), Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window), Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window), Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window), The Pet/Slave Names Given To Me By Abuser M… – Trigger Alert. Of course abuser M called me cuntly as if it were an honor for me to wear his degrading name. My spouse has asked me to give her a pet name and at first I was a bit hesitant because I NEVER want to be degrading to her. This article mainly focuses of some pet names for boys…. Sweetie – A simple pet name, but a classic for a reason. ( Log Out / I hope you enjoy changing your name- mine’s not legally changed, but once yours is, you might want to celebrate it like a second birthday- one for you. Why? You can select a name which is unique and perfectly coincides with the qualities and nature of your boyfriend. Just select the type of pet and category of name or starting letter you are interested in. Eventually I was given a second pet-name by abuser M which ultimately became the pet-name that he would regularly call me in private. The second pet-name that abuser M gave to me was “cuntly”. I’ve never understood until recently why I dislike my name so much other than the fact that hearing it literally makes my ears buzz and ring. So, in this manner, you can find many cool nicknames. I know for a fact she had an abusive childhood and maybe this has something to do with that. Finn – One of the cool dog names for males. You can also take a readymade pet name and alter it the way you want to. Kiddo – A cute nickname for a younger guy. I even had a personalized email address through his IT consulting business… red@abuserM.com. There’s a hymn I love called, “He Knows My Name”. In search of air-conditioned Pet Names for Guys? Muffin 7. Change ), You are commenting using your Facebook account. For example, I’d have no objection to this: Via Pinterest. But sometimes, pet names can also be a reflection of a certain individuality of a special one. I hate my name. The Ultimate Guide to BDSM – Video by Carvaka, Follow Fifty Shades of Truth and BS on WordPress.com. Many people tell me that the name is fitting for me especially given that my hair is golden-red. The sound of abuser M saying “Amber” out loud was almost a shock and a blow to my ears… because my name does after all bring up horrific flashbacks. In our daily lives, we use pet names to address people whom we are close to, in an affectionate manner. Well, it depends on the name I suppose, but then you could also say the same about the names many parents saddle their own children with. Insulting, Demeaning, Undignified, Shameful, Unbecoming, Degrading Pet-names (a nickname for a partner/lover/spouse/girlfriend/boyfrien… of the above) This is for a piece I'm writing. I'm a Switch and depending on the game, we call each other different names. X, It took a great deal of courage for you to reveal all this. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. Right now it seems fun for both of us but I worry she may eventually regret it as you did. Pet Names for Men - Love Bondings. And so he gave me the first pet-name that I acquired while under his control. I am reading that she desires for you to treat her like a pet and she enjoys it when you do. Fifty Shades of Truth & BS is a Blog about the recovery & evolution of a life long domestic violence survivor. I can’t imagine the kinds of things you’ve endured. Pet names are fun and cute. This is all very personal and difficult information to discuss. How original… but I grasped on to the degrading name because I wanted him to love me. This means, almost all Bengalis have a pet name. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. Sweet cheeks 3. Pickle 19. Oh dear. I cannot wait for the day that I am able to accomplish this important step in my recovery. On the bright side of all of this – because of the abuse that I endured I now have the opportunity to confidentially and legally change my full name to whatever my heart desires. Posted: (2 days ago) For instance, if your man is a very rough, you can choose from many pet names for men; such as ‘ruffy’, ‘tuffy’, ‘hardy’, and so on and so forth. You might want to check out the lyrics. Sometimes, however, it is a process of deliberate choice, as there comes a time in every relationship where a pet name seems conspicuous by its absence.